Love at First Sight: Not a Myth

A few months ago, one of my friend’s teenage daughter watched While You Were Sleeping and snorted in disbelief because the heroine married someone she’d known for only a week.

One criticism I often hear about romance novels is the “unreality” of how quickly romantic relationships develop.

Short courtships don’t bother me. I believe in them. My parents knew each other 3 months before they got married–nearly 61 years ago. I started dating TV Stevie at the end of March; our wedding was August 8 of the same year. That was 27 years ago. But those were long relationships . . . compared to my sister.

On August 5, my sister met the roommate of a cousin’s boyfriend. On August 29, she married him. That’s twenty-four days.

While that is amazing enough in itself, you also need to know that in 1976, there was a ten-day waiting period from the time you bought your marriage license until the time you could actually get married in this state.

She lost him last month, suddenly and terribly. After 38 years of marriage, she loved him as much as she had the day she married him, if not more. The depth of her grief is unimaginable to me.

But the depth of their love for each other is the reason I firmly believe in love at first sight.

So to all the naysayers out there who don’t believe a week is enough time for love to take root , I give you this proof.

 

Writing Wednesday: Release Day!

I am so excited! It’s release day for And Jericho Burned, the second book in my Toke Lobo & the Pack series.

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And the first book, Moonlight Serenade, is not only now available in paperback from both Amazon and Barnes & Noble, but the Kindle version is FREE for the next five days.

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SOL SUNDAY: Adventures in Wallpaper

When I was about 2, my parents started building the house in which I grew up and in which they still live. My parents, not a contractor, built it, with the help of an aunt and uncle. We lived in the cellar (basement) for a bit. Yes, I do remember this.

When the upstairs was nearly ready to move into, my father took me to one of the stores in the small, nearby village in which he’d spent his teen and young adult years. We went to Annie Long’s for just about everything. This day, we were picking out wallpaper, and I, all of about three years old, could pick out the wallpaper for the room my younger sister and I would share for most of the next 15 years. I found what I wanted right away.

childhood wall paperYes, this is the actual wallpaper from my childhood bedroom. My parents papered the walls, then my dad build closets, shelves, and bureaus against one wall. Although the room has been redecorated numerous times, the wall remains in the back of the closets, unfaded by sunlight, as bright as the day it was pasted onto the sheet rock.

I knew, even at age three, this was the perfect wallpaper for a child’s room. The doll in the green dress looked like my beloved Suzibelle. And there were letters, those magic symbols that marched across the pages of the storybooks my mother read to us. In later years, I would first try to find all the letters of the alphabet, in order, as I lay awake in bed. And later still, I would try to make words from those letters.

These brightly colored walls eventually gave way to lavender (which turned gray too quickly), then yellow (with zodiac bulletin boards!).  But I still get a thrill whenever I think about my dad taking me to Annie Long’s and letting me pick out what I wanted.

 

WIP Wednesday: Larynn Ford

This week I’m delighted to have Larynn Ford as my guest on Work In Progress Wednesday.

MJ: So let’s get to know a little bit about Larynn the person. If you could travel anywhere in the universe, what would be your top three destinations?

Larynn:  I’d love to be able to travel the US extensively and see the beauty of our great nation. I’m not so much the bright lights, big city kinda girl, but I do find the wonders nature has to offer fascinating.  Though I’m not a world traveler, outside the US, I would love to visit Ireland and Scotland.

MJ: Do you have any recurring dreams you’d be willing to share with us?

Larynn:  None currently, but when I was young, maybe five or six, I had a similar dream numerous times. I was always outside playing in the front yard. My mama would come to the door, check her watch, and say it was time to come in. I begged for more play time of course, but she’d warned me to hurry because it was almost time. ‘It’ was coming and this happened everyday at the same time.

 I don’t know what ‘it’ was but I remember looking up the road and hearing ‘it’ roaring toward me, like a tornado or the Tasmanian Devil. Fear seized me, my feet became weighted, making it difficult to move. I’d look again and ‘it’ would be coming closer and closer.

I always made it safely inside the screen door just in time. ‘It’ would pass by the house, the wind blowing, accompanying the whirring, frightening, roaring sounds. For another day, we were safe.

Maybe I’ll turn my ‘it’ into a book one of these days:)
MJ: That sounds terrifying, but good for you for thinking of turning it into fiction fodder.  Let’s say you weren’t a writer. What would be your creative outlet?
Larynn:   I love gardening. Never said I’m good at it mind you, but I would love to be. My animals are fun and I wish I had more time to spend with them. A pot-belly pig named Oreo, two goats, Ethel and Tinkerbelle, and Chrissie the cat, would love it if I was able to spend more time with them.

Tinkerbelle and another goat, Wendy (no longer with us) can be seen in the banner on my Face Book page.
MJ: What is the one thing you won’t leave home without?
Larynn:  It’s everyone’s answer these days, the iPhone. How did we ever get along without them?
MJ: True enough. What do you normally eat for breakfast, of do you skip it and get straight to work?
Larynn: I always take breakfast with me and eat at my desk. If it’s from home, it might be a peanut butter sandwich or a couple of boiled eggs to go with coffee from the break room. If I stop at McDonald’s on the way to work, it’s a Sausage McMuffin and a large coffee with three creams.
MJ: I’m too fond of Sausage McMuffins myself.  Tell us a little about your ideal writing space.
Larynn: Anywhere quiet but preferably home, in my recliner, with my laptop, my iTunes playlist, and plenty of coffee.
MJ: And how do you get to your recliner?
Larynn:   Since I work a regular job, my only full writing days would be the weekends and that only happens if there are no other plans–family, holiday, and such.
I feed the cat and the fish and make a pot of coffee. One would think the writing would commence at this point, but as you well know, there are emails, Face Book, and such that must be tended. After an hour or so, the writing, or editing as is the case for me this weekend, will begin.
MJ: Are you a plotter or a pantser?
Larynn:  I  wish there were a choice in between the two. I start out with an idea and write that (pantser). As ideas pop into my head, I’ll start a list at the bottom of my word doc and add new thoughts or bits of dialog as they present themselves (plotter of sorts). Then as I come to the spot in the story for one of the ideas, I’ll pluck it from my waiting list and write it into the story.
MJ: Name 3 things on your desk right now.
Larynn:  My cast iron fairy (picked her up on vacation in a little country store in North Carolina when I was writing In My Wildest Dreams), posters of my book covers (4), and my prized copy of Wild About You. Autographed by Kerrelyn Sparks at RWA Nationals 2013 in Atlanta.
MJ: Would you consider self publishing?
Larynn: I consider it from time to time, but I would need to do so much research to be able to decide. I don’t do change well and tend to stick within my comfort zone until my frustration level pushes me to make a decision.
MJ: Time for the Lightning Round.  Wine- red or white?
Larynn: Red
MJ: Beer: bottle or can?
Larynn: bottle
MJ: Cinco de Mayo or St. Patrick’s Day?
Larynn: Cinco de Mayo
MJ: Paper or e-books
Larynn: e-books!
MJ: Coke or Pepsi?
Larynn: Coke
MJ: Introvert or extrovert
Larynn: Introvert
MJ: Favorite ethic food
Larynn: Chinese
MJ: Now for the meat of the interview. Can you share the first five to ten sentences of your current work-in-progress?
Larynn:  This is from A Place to Belong.

Carly’s SUV sailed through the air. Her entire life flashed before her eyes, displayed across the windshield like a movie on the big screen. She relived every painful moment . . . her struggle to fit in as she was bounced from foster home to foster home, defending herself from school bullies, double shifts in numerous burger joints that paid her way through college, her whirlwind romance–.

Treetops slapped the windshield and brought her out of the trance as she watched what had been her life. “You bastard! This is all your fault.” The SUV began its descent, snapping limbs as it careened through the air on its way to the inevitable crash. She squeezed the steering wheel in a white-knuckled death grip as if maintaining her hold would change her fate. Her head smacked hard against the side window. A gazillion stars filled the inside of car around her. Pain vibrated from one side of her skull to the other.

MJ: I know I want to read more! How can we buy any current releases you have?

Larynn:  IN MY WILDEST DREAMShttp://www.amazon.com/My-Wildest-Dreams-Larynn-Ford-ebook/dp/B00CE3B11I/

“CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS” in ALL I WANT FOR CHRISTMAS IS A SOUL MATEhttp://www.amazon.com/All-I-Want-Christmas-Soulmate-ebook/dp/B00GH2I458/
MJ: And how can readers find you on social media?
Larynn: Here are my links:
Twitter @larynnford
MJ: Thanks again for stopping by, Larynn. Good luck with your book!

Central New York Romance Writers

I am currently president of the best darned chapter of RWA, which is a non-profit trade association of over 10,200 members. My local chapter is Central New York Romance Writers. Yesterday, during our monthly gathering, a new member told me he chose our chapter over another chapter because our website presented a more active organization. Another member told me she went to return to her local chapter, found it no longer existed, but learned many former members were attending CNYRW.

Wow. That’s pretty empowering.

2009-05-09 22.56.00Other members who’ve come to us in the past have told us that our chapter is more exciting than the chapter they left. Other friends, who’ve moved away, say their new chapter can’t compare to CNYRW, so they aren’t as involved.

Yesterday, I sat with three other members on a panel to discuss editing: how we balance the editing life with the writing life, what we look for in a manuscript (well, not me, because I don’t acquire), the differences in various publishing houses. Char Chaffin acquires for the house for which I write and copyedit; Nicki Greenwood used to acquire for another upstate-based publisher, but now does freelance copyediting;  and Kara Leigh Miller is managing editor for yet a third small press.

Such energy! And great questions from the membership.

I’m blessed to have such a wonderful writing community.