Slice of Life Sunday: Exhaustion

Oh, it has been a week.

There were many highlights, including a trip to Watertown, NY with a couple of writing friends for a booksigning and preview screening of a new Public TV show focusing on local authors. I got to be their entourage; it was great fun!

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Authors Kris Fletcher and Gayle Callen (Emma Cane)

TV Stevie and I went to the Capitol Theater in Rome, NY on Friday night. The Amazing Kreskin was there. It was quite an experience.  Saturday night included a lovely get-together with some of TV’s former co-workers. We really had a great time.

There has been very little progress on my lawn recovery or my office reclamation project. And I’m too tired to care.

 

From Pool to Haven Pt 3

The first week or so, work on the transformation of my back yard from ancient-above-ground-pool-to-sanctuary progressed steadily.2014-09-28 15.09.06

Cleaning out the sand and gravel was a slow, messy job.

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 Daisy-like flowers appeared. This is good. I love daisies.

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Then ornamental rocks found their way into place.

Focus for meditation? I like to think so.

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Then the beginning of the patio extension started taking shape.

The pool was here when we moved in as newly-weds. My children, Y & X, have never known anything else.

I can’t wait. I can smell next summer’s fresh herbs already.

From Pool to Haven, Pt 2

“A garden must combine the poetic and the mysterious with a feeling of serenity and joy.” Luis Barragan

Turns out one of our neighbors does landscaping. “What do you want?” he asked.

A good question with many answers.

  • Low maintenance
  • a container garden
  • an herb garden
  • a meditation garden
  • lawn
  • someplace to sit in privacy and write
  • Did we mention low maintenance?
  • Oh, and could we extend the patio with pavers?

First step: remove the sand and gravel that housed the pool for so many years.

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Then he put in a low wall of flat rocks–shale, I think.

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Yes, we’re going to keep those bushes–cypress? cedar? They hid the base of the pool; now they’ll provide privacy from the street. He brought over some plants. And yes, my maple tree had to go: chlorine poisoning, we were told. It was slowly dying. The stump is visible in the first photo below.

blog 2c blog 2e blog 2dTurns out autumn is the best time to plant grass. Who knew?

To be continued . . .

 

From Pool To Haven: Part 1

When we bought our house, many years ago, there was an above-ground pool in the back yard. When our children were younger, it was a wonderful thing to have. But even then, we didn’t use it much–between work, baseball games, and erratic upstate New York weather, there was never enough time to really enjoy it. Our children went to day camp in the summers, and most of the time, that included swimming, so they weren’t deprived.

Three years ago, we opened the pool, but a harsh winter left the water a particularly nasty shade of yuck we could not chemical away. The following two years, we didn’t even bother to open it. Our children are grown and mostly gone. We decided that’s what should happen to the pool: gone.

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Craig’s List yielded no takers. So we called the scrappers to come and get it.

pool04Scrappers will come and take down the whole thing if you let them have it. It didn’t cost us a penny.

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They were efficient and neat about it, too.

pool03But now what? My back lawn can’t remain like this.

Stay tuned . . .

My “Do Not Call” List

I was home sick with a sinus infection a couple of afternoons this past week. Every time I started to doze, the telephone rang (or TV Stevie came home with a treat for me). And not a single one of the calls was an actual call. but rather was a solicitation from a stranger, and more often than not in the form of a robo call.

I am on the national “Do Not Call” list. In fact, I just checked to make sure my telephone numbers are still registered. They are. But, according the the website: “Political solicitations are not covered by the TSR at all, since they are not included in its definition of “telemarketing.” Charities are not covered by the requirements of the national registry.” And that sucks. A lot of scammers pretend to be charities and wake me up. Or interrupt my viewing of The Roosevelts. Or my writing.

Some people suggest checking caller ID before answering the phone. Caller ID does not miraculously prevent the phone from ringing in the first place. And that’s what prevents me from napping. Or watching TV. Or writing, reading, cooking dinner, or meditating. And this past week was sunny. And one of my definitions of heaven is napping on the living room sofa with the sun on my face.

I pay a telephone bill for my convenience, not some solicitor’s sales quota. There is something inherently wrong about paying to be disturbed by unwanted calls. Yet we keep the land line because so many places with which we do business require a telephone number, and we are not about to give out our cell numbers so they, too, can be sold to more business to annoy us.

The only people I want calling me are my husband, children, parents, siblings, nieces/nephews, publisher(s), potential agents, and my physician’s office to tell me yes, the doctor will write a script for meds for my sinus infection, and my pharmacy to say, “Your prescription is ready for pick up.”